Or does it really? You can be sensible and try to adapt to your situation as best you can.. but if you can’t then tough I guess? There is a reason why people who easily adapt to situations have more successful lives, more friends, a better career and so on. Sometimes adapting just takes time… maybe weeks, months or even years. It’s hard to accept changes, and this often makes me stuck in the process of adapting to changes, but as soon as I realize there is/was nothing I could do, the whole situation suddenly becomes a lot easier, which I realized several times during my exchange stay. It’s not always easy, and it’s not supposed to be.